Wednesday, February 7, 2018

nice guys™

this is my personal take on nice guy™ syndrome. this is not fact. this is opinion. take the words and advice here with a grain of salt.

i also made a short video version of this here:

hello fam.
i was recently getting into elliot rodger shit again since the MSM just posted about him being "alt-right" (he's not. he was just a crazy racist) and mike cernovich said he was a male feminist (he's not. he hated women with a passion). everyone loves to pretend elliot rodger was part of whatever group they hate. some people even blamed violent video games. i personally blame manlets. (joke)

but in reality we know elliot was just a psychopath. he openly fantasized about crushing new born puppies to death, putting women in cages (not in the hot way) and murdering people. men and women. but besides being a general psychopath. elliot was also a nice guy™.

what is a nice guy™?

there are two layers to this
"the nice guy™ and the friendzone"
let's start with the nice guy™

a nice guy™ is not a nice guy.
a nice guy™ is a guy who thinks being nice automatically should grant him all the bagina (or peen) he wants. (there's also nice girl syndrome btw but for the sake of it we're going to call it nice guy™ syndrome since that's what it's normally known as)

nice guy™'s do not understand it's expected that every single fucking human being on earth by default should be nice. they think it's unique to be nice. and that it's enough to get a partner. they don't get that everyone who talks to a girl with the intention of sleeping with or dating her is going to be nice also. if the woman is cute. you can damn well expect that every single guy she meets is nice to her. in fact there were probably multiple men just that day who were kind to her. it's not enough.

you cannot just put nice tokens in a woman and get sex or love. i know some people wish it was that easy. but humans are complicated. and the stupid saying is true- women are complicated. i would know. i have been one for 26 years.

the friendzone

"you're nice but i'd rather stay friends"
truly the worst thing to hear when you are interested in someone. if she likes you as a friend why can't she like you as a lover? because romantic chemistry is a 2 way street, bucko.
do not girlfriend zone a girl. if you can't see her as anything else but a lover. if it pains you to be around her and not embrace her. if you can't stand the thought of her being with someone else. fucking do not be friends with her.
this is torture for you. do not stand around waiting for her to suddenly fall in love with you. if she has painted you as a friend. thats it. dont wait for years, dude. that's time wasted when there could be someone else out there for you.

girls, this is on you too. if you turn down a guy to just be friends with him, as painful as it is to lose him as a friend, and i know it's painful. let him go. you're going to always feel awkward and uncomfortable being with him knowing he has feelings for you. unless you are a cold bitch and enjoy stringing men along, do the right thing and slowly cut contact. talk to him. tell him it hurts you as much as it hurts him. chemistry is important. and if it doesn't go both ways it just won't work. i say this from experience.

i believe men and women can be friends. i dont think that is impossible. but when one person boy/girlfriend zone's the other. it can be tragic for both parties.

my experience

growing up i was always friends with guys. this wasn't on purpose. i wasn't trying to be one of the guys™ wanted to be friends with women. i longed for female attention. (in fact my one female friend turned out to be a male all along) but i didn't fit in due to many things. one being my OCD disorder and 2 being my (now gone) social awkwardness. in my teens i was relentlessly bullied by women for my fashion choices, my hair, my doormat nature. the nerdy guys took me under their wing. and although they didn't really talk to me much. they let me sit at their lunch table. sometimes i think of why i'm so protective of men and this might be why. it's just engrained in my mind to pay them back for protecting me. being 'asexual/aromantic' at the time (i did not know there was a name for it, i just thought i was broken or something) this made it very easy to get along with the opposite sex without awkwardness.
when i was about 16 a boy asked me out one day. i said yes since i thought it was the correct thing to do. we didn't hangout or anything. we were just bf and gf by label. 3 days later i broke up with him via myspace (lol) and i told him "you're nice but i don't want to be in a relationship right now." (something along those lines. maybe there was some obnoxious emojis. maybe it was written like uR niIce BuT I dnT WaNnA B In a rEaLaTiOn sHiP Rn XD) he was nice. but me being uninterested in sex or romance i didn't know what to do. there was no sexual or romantic chemistry there. but he was nice. we stayed friends. until he said he still liked me. and i had to slowly break contact and let him go. THIS IS THE CORRECT THING TO DO.

fast forward into my late teens and early 20's
i work now. so i'm in public. i'm also not as ugly. every time a guy would ask me out i'd say i have a boyfriend. i didn't. but this was easy. i didn't have to awkwardly let him down. guys normally respect when you are "taken" (that wasn't the case one time 'hurrdurr he's not here tho') i would never go on a date are you fucking kidding me. i had nothing to talk about. i was an uninteresting shut in who spent all day online. and i still wasn't very interested in dating. but when i didn't say i had a boyfriend and i denied these advances i would always say "you're nice but-"

and i didn't realize until recently i was part of the problem.

girl... JUST SAY "NO"

nice guy™ syndrome is just a mans fault as it is our fault so let's stop this. when you say this i know you are being sweet. you don't want to hurt his feelings. but when you have to turn someone down just tell the truth. do not sugar coat it. i know it feels like shit and you feel mean but just simply tell them you don't feel the same way about them as they do about you. just tell them you're not interested. you can still do it in a nice way. but just do not tell him he is "nice but..."

what this does, especially to socially awkward men, is tell them that they are being turned down for being nice. "she said i was nice but rejected me" he'll say to his friends thus perpetuating the "nice guys finish last" bullshit.

nice guys™ finish last

unless you're rich or drive a nice car and you're looking for some shallow gold digger. simply being nice isn't going to help you. ever. like i said earlier, everyone is nice by default. it's expected. if women got with the first guy that was nice to them there would be no single women.

you need something else. what are your hobbies? interests? do you play an instrument? do you share any interests with the girl? are you funny? there are plenty of things that you can be other than nice. because if you're just "nice" you're boring.

here's a mgtow-esque theory. but stay with me here. a lot of socially awkward young men are not shown random niceness. while a good looking girl is shown niceness by men all the time. so to them they couldn't even imagine being talked to sweetly by someone. or being complimented. but to a woman. that's the fucking daily. this doesn't make women bad people and this is nobody's fault. this is just humans. this is evolution. just keep in mind 'nice' isn't special on it's own. all people should be nice.

but listen. nice guys do not finish last. my fiance is a nice guy. he's the sweetest man i have ever met. he treats me amazing. he's sentimental, caring, affectionate and understanding. but he's also hilarious, charming, witty, smart and shares a hobby with me. that's what got me. he was also in my online social group. usually this is the way women (or at least myself and some other girls i know) like to meet people. i can't speak for everyone though. but it's important to have friends. even if they're internet friends. if you're a socially awkward mess it's easier too. you already have things in common. INTERNET! send the bitch some memes. bitches love memes. if all else fails, join my discord. it's produced 6 fucking relationships.

but anyway
sometimes socially awkward men will confuse being confident with being an asshole. lots of people online come to the conclusion that greg (my fiance) is an asshole because his sense of humor, cockiness and dominant attitude in videos. keep in mind a lot of that is playing up personality the lulz and you only see a small portion of our relationship online. behind the scenes he is still cocky, has a "mean" sense of humor (so do i have you seen my videos? we're both 'assholes') and is dominant. but he's also a loving, respectful and amazing man. not an asshole.

but while men may confuse being confident with being an asshole. women do it as well. women will get with genuine assholes assuming it's confidence. which is sad. they are just as fucked as the nice guys. they'll get hurt. some women do like assholes. and that's just how they are. but you are not an asshole and you don't want to be an asshole. you shouldn't strive to be. you should always strive to be the best you that you can be. and you also don't want a woman who wants an asshole. so don't worry about it.

not every woman likes chad thundercock.

all women are different.

despite all your rage you are still a nice guy™ in a cage

nice guy™ rage is something i have dealt with. i have turned down a guy only to be met with psychotic breakdowns. a guy i knew sent me very expensive gifts and a love letter with no return address when i already had a boyfriend. when i denied his advances, he tried to guilt trip me about the gifts. "but i bought you those gifts." as well as other crazy things. and tried very hard to ruin my life.

this is a genuine 100% pure nice guy™ in the wild. and it wasn't all his fault either. i should have cut contact with him instead of playing nice. instead of saying "that was very nice of you but you know i have a boyfriend" i should have instead said "do not send me things like this. this is something that somebody does for a significant other." instead i strung him along because i felt bad. i had intense empathy for him. he was very socially awkward. he was lonely. he never experienced a woman being nice to him. i was probably the first. but wherever he is i hope he found someone for him.

do not do nice things just to expect something in return

this is so important. if you are just nice to get something out of it you are not actually nice. you're just a little rat trying to get into someone's pants. and many girls are smart when it comes to that game. we can see through it. the bitches are evolving.
you'll also notice i'm mostly talking about relationships. thats because i know fuckall when it comes to one night stands and hooking up. that's a whole different advice blog you should be reading.


-make sure you have other things to be proud of than just being nice. everyone is nice. everyone is capable of being nice. you're not special for being nice to someone. you're also likely not being turned down because you are nice. there are many other factors for someone not liking you. do not lie to yourself.

-also do not lie to yourself and think you are owed any kind of love or sex from somebody. it doesn't matter how nice you are. it doesn't matter how many things you buy them. it doesn't matter that you took them on a date and paid. it doesn't matter how long you have been "friends" (get out of there) you are not owed sex or a relationship. despite how mean it sounds nobody deserves sex or love. some people are lucky and find it. others work for it. but no one deserves it. i was lucky and found it. you might not be as lucky. but i hope you are.

-remember you don't need a relationship to be happy or fulfilled. you can be happy alone.

-focus on yourself before all others. if you don't love yourself it might be hard for others to love you. when you learn to love yourself that is very attractive to other people. and if you can't learn to love yourself learn to love hating yourself because nihilism is funny sometimes and humor is attractive.

thats about it for now. i might update some things or make this a video. who knows.

bye <3

Thursday, January 18, 2018

YouTube. Why I do it & why you should (or shouldn't)

hello frens. this is a long post. a short story, if you will. about my origin story and my experience on youtube but it ends with advice for you. i was motivated to do this after reading about youtube's new monetization policy, the one where youtubers who have under 1,000 subscribers won't be able to make money, and how it made some of you feel like quitting.

i swear this short tale of how i came to be the giant idiot you know today is worth the read if you're a follower or fan. especially if you're a small youtuber. but if you're just a regular guy. fuck off. no just kidding. you're allowed to read it too. just don't complain about the lowercase. a e s t h e t i c, newfriend. let's go.

How I started.

i've been making videos all my life way before there was even a computer in my house. i used to make videos just for fun with an 8mm camera, to entertain my family. i loved movies. and as soon as i discovered moments in life could be recorded on film forever, that i could make my own movies, i was addicted to making videos. whether it was making stop motion with my stuffed animals or interactive 'blues clues' type videos for my sister. screaming at the camera "hi sarah! where's the bunny???!!!" awkwardly waiting a few seconds then going "wow you found the bunny! great job!" quality content, 8 year old june.
so youtube naturally was very attractive to me. "you can put videos ON THE INTERNET and fuckin SHARE THEM WITH PEOPLE" 
i started my first channel in 2008 with my close family friends. it was called JAFSproductions. it stood for June, Andrew, Faith and Sarah. Believe it or not this was influenced by fucking Fred. him and his cousins had a youtube channel with their initials as the name. so yeah. Fred was my first youtube influence. god damn what a throwback.
on JAFS we would just upload silly skits we did so we could share it with our friends. we even created a parody of the 70's show. we didn't expect anyone to see this shit (nobody really did). and there wasn't an option to monetize at this time. it was just really fun to make videos. the JAFS people lived on the other side of the island and could not drive (they were all 14-15 lol) so it was incredibly rare we ever had the opportunity to film anything and when we did- they weren't really into it. it seemed like i was the only one wanting to make videos and forcing them into it wasn't fun at all.
so around 2010 i created "Shoe0nhead", a channel for personal vlogging since i couldn't make skits on my own. i figured i can get creative juices flowing by being goofy by myself and making up 'storytime' stories. so i just talked about things happening in my life and exaggerated, even made up, stories about it. it was fun. but it wasn't what i loved to do. i met online friends and small communities of people and made videos for them but it didn't last long. around this time i was in college, majoring in film and had severe depression. college was a big wake up call that i sucked at directing, something i wanted to do since i was a child. i dropped out and deleted those old vlogs and left youtube for nearly 3 years. abandoning it as soon as i hit 1,000 subscribers. that 4 digit number scared me. i didn't like that i gained that many doing something i wasn't happy with. i wasn't having fun. my depression was getting worse. i was confused and unsure what to do. so i became a daywalker. i completely abandoned the fun part of the internet. just working at the cosmetic section of Macy's and using Facebook. 

How I REALLY started.

July 2014.
i don't even know what the internet is anymore. i haven't touched my youtube account in 3 years. it dropped from 1,000 subscribers to 500. people forgot about me. i was content with my new normie lifestyle. i accepted my death of 9 to 5. i accepted i would never meet friends who enjoyed making videos. i accepted i would never find motivation to create or entertain again.

then i found feminism


facebook was full of pop-feminist shit. everywhere i looked for 2 years. friends i have met online over the years and people i met at work were turning into crazy people outright calling men trash and making huge deals out of little things. calling jokes offensive. calling people misogynists. sexists. racists. i was pressured to be a feminist. facebook friends would ask if i was and i would answer "isn't that outdated? why not just humanist?" (now i know it's called egalitarian, but yeah) which would drive them into a fit of fury. it was insane.

and it was fucking hilarious

so i had an idea.
"fuck it"
i was going to risk friendships with nearly 20 people and upload a short rant about how stupid i thought this all was. and i was going to upload it on facebook.
but then insecurity hit me.
i didn't want to hurt their feelings. i didn't want to directly call them out. they would know i was talking about them. i didn't want to deal with that.
so at the last second i uploaded it to my old Shoe0nhead account.
"this shit is dead nobody will see it anyway."
i needed to rant. i need to scream and vent my frustrations out. at the time i didn't know it, but i had found my drive to create again.

i said what i needed to say. made some jokes. edited it. put Dr. Dre music in the background (inspired by YourMovieSucksDotOrg). it felt good to edit again. even though nobody was going to watch it. it felt good getting that off my chest. maybe someone could relate to my fustration and my humor about the situation would make them feel better. but my channel has been dead for 3 years. i doubted it. 

i hit upload and walked the fuck away. 

catching thunder in a bottle

at this time i didn't use youtube for any other reason other than movie review channels and gamegrumps. i loved (old) JonTron and YourMovieSucksDotOrg (still do). but i wasn't subscribed to any political channels. because i hated politics. they bored me. (still do)
about 4 days after i uploaded Oppression Olympics, my shallow rant about feminism, i decided to check the comments.

it had over 40,000 views.
i had 3,000 subscribers.

i couldn't fucking believe it.

the most views i ever saw on a video of mine was when my sister and i made a video pretending we caught a real alien on film. I think it had 8,000 views. because the title was clickbait af.
but this video? it was called "oppression olympics.mp4". (i kept the mp4 because it thought it was funny.) how did it manage to get this popular?
i read the comments. thousands of people felt the same way i did. after years of feeling like i was alone i was amazed even one person felt the same way i did. it was overwhelming. people were thanking me for "speaking out". saying they "feel the same way". and i was happy for them. i wish i could have found a shoe0nhead when i felt like i was taking crazy pills.
but where were these people coming from?


i had no idea who this was. but his comment was the top comment and had several hundred likes. his avatar was a bunny so naturally i was like "n i c e".
i clicked on his channel and holy shit. someone with a lot of subscribers who felt the same way i did. someone else who was fed up with feminist shit.
he had shared my video on a video he made and i instantly connected the dots.

It's about ethics

people wanted more. and boy did i have more. "fat acceptance." "otherkin" all these funny topics i've been surrounded by that i couldn't wait to rant about. i started discovering other youtubers like Sargon of Akkad, Internet Aristocrat and The Honey Badgers. i started diving down the rabbit hole. at the time there wasn't much. but to see other people on my side of this issue was such a relief. i couldn't wait to entertain them more.

then GamerGate happened.

this overloaded my motivation. i went from "what the fucks a video" to "AAAAAAAAAAA" in the span of a few months. i wanted to cover gamergate. it was interesting to me. the striesand effect was crazy. btw all my titles had ".mp4" in them. that was going to be a thing. it's not a thing anymore.
although i was still a newfag, i enjoyed ranting about these subjects. i joined twitter where i spent most of my time. since i worked i couldn't make many videos. but on twitter it was 100% gamergate 24/7. looking back on it, it was pretty cringe. and weird. but i was so into it. the memes were spicy. the friends were cool. the bantz were hot. i was also building an audience very quickly and didn't know how to handle it.


early 2015
i wasn't monetized. i refused to make any money off of my videos. i didn't want this hobby that i had just gotten back into to feel like a job. i wanted to keep it pure. mundane matt tried to convince me to monetize. i refused. i already had a job. i worked a lot. i worked almost every day. but subjects were moving quickly. every day there was a new happening. every hour something stupid happened that was ripe for the commentary. by the time i had the time to sit down a make a video the topic was already a week old. not only could i not keep up, but pressure was building. i was comparing myself to other people in my genre constantly. there were a few channels, let's call one, The Thinker Of Reason 666, that really intimidated me. they were smart. i was not. they made long videos. i made short videos. at this time i had 50,000 subscribers. fifty thousand people were watching me. and i couldn't handle it. my content wasn't good enough to entertain 50,000 people. The Thinker Of Reason didn't even have 50,000 people watching him. why did i deserve that much? i felt like i was cheating. and once again the numbers were freaking me out.

so after my 'average is beautiful' video i quit.

i stayed on twitter and decided i would just be an observer and not a creator. i was still interested in the subject. but i didn't feel good enough. there were now dozens of youtubers talking about this subject and they were all way smarter than me, with better cameras, and more to say.

but they weren't... funny. they were serious. everyone was so serious. how the fuck are you so serious with such a hilarious topic?

i watched my subscription feed overflow with updates and content about feminism. they were great videos. i loved hearing what all the different personalities had to say. because of the recommended videos on a TL;DR video i discovered Armoured Skeptic who QUICKLY became my new favorite youtuber. i thought it was going to be some cringe worthy edgy atheist shit but he was hilarious. his humor was on point. the way he made fun of people's logic and words without actually making fun of them personally was influential. it made me want to create again. i bought his merch. but i kept quiet. i'll keep the entertainment on twitter. feminism is clearly a serious subject. i also discovered christina hoff sommers during my "quitting" months and i was addicted to her. based mom, they called her. she was a huge influence to me (still is). so i bought her book. "Who Stole Feminism"

and it was like a sign from god

Guess whose back, back again

i bought a "slightly used" copy of Sommers' book on amazon and it couldn't have fallen into better hands. the pages of her book were COVERED in angry feminist notes. saying things like "no" "fuck off" "shut the fuck up" and 'correcting' christina's points. my dumbass had to make a video about this. i couldn't just tweet about it. i had to show my audience. so i threw on my Armoured Skeptic shirt (hoping senpai would notice me) and made the video. yes it wasn't a "smart" video. but it was funny. and i feel like that corner of the internet needed some laid back, funny material. for fucks sake, the feminists were basically feeding us the comedic material.

people loved it.

what was i thinking sitting back and sticking to twitter? it's like britney spears said:

'there's only two types of people in the world.
the one's that entertain
and the one's that observe.'

gay marriage was legalized in the US the next month. so i made a video mocking conservatives who freaked out about it. people loved it. it didn't matter what i made a video about. why did i feel like i had to do something else? or be someone else? people subscribed because of me. because they like MY takes on these subjects. it didn't matter that The thinker of reason made a video about x first. not everyone is subscribed to the thinker of reason and not everyone likes the thinker of reason. the people who are subscribed to me are here for me. and although i couldn't sit and read a 10 page study on the wage gap. i could make a funny button that debunks it, symbolizing how often feminists bring it up. my purpose was to make people laugh amongst all the bad news and i was very okay with this. i felt comfortable making videos again. 
i also started dating Armoured Skeptic. a fan girl's dream come true. and i finally had a friend who enjoyed creating entertainment as much as i did. then i made my buzzfeed response video which fucking shot me through the roof. the subs kept pouring in. i finally got over my stubbornness about monetization thanks to my boyfriend (and my parents who basically pressured me to make money off of this) and quit my job. in late 2016 at 400,000 subscribers i felt secure enough to quit my job. i was scared it would change things, but so far it has not.

it's currently 2018 and i am a few thousand away from 1 million subscribers.

so what is this? am i just bragging? no bitch. listen.

You and YouTube.

advice time:

this advice all comes from experience and things i have done by accident that seem to work. by reading comments every single day since fucking 2014 i've noticed why people come to my channel and why people stay. 

this week youtube rolled out it's monthly platform suicide note. it told small channels under 1,000 subscribers would not be able to monetize. 

i tweeted about this and was incredibly upset seeing the replies of "small channels" wanting to quit. or hearing some of you have already quit because of demonetization. so let's talk about that really quick.

answer these questions

1. why do you make videos?

i make videos because i love to make people laugh. i make videos because it's been a hobby of mine since i was a kid. i make videos because i love seeing people timestamp a part they found funny. i make videos because i love to create more inside jokes and memes within my fanbase. i make videos because i love to edit them. i make videos because im fucking bored and have no hobbies. why do you make videos?

if one of the only things you can think of is "money" you were doomed from the start. because i'm going to be honest. it's really fucking easy to tell when a youtuber is just in it for the money. you can tell they have no passion behind what they are doing and it's a huge turn off. do not be that person.
that sounds mean. and harsh. but it's true. you need a muse. you need something more motivating than money. otherwise don't bother. you can get a job working retail and make money easily.

pretend it's 2008 again

years ago there was no monetization on youtube and that was the golden age of youtube. it's my reason for keeping the potato cam 480p black bar "girl in bedroom" aesthetic. look at the famous youtubers who were gold age youtubers, like shane dawson or smosh. they weren't monetized when they started and now they have millions of subscribers.

so let's say you're okay with not being monetized. but you still feel like your channel isn't doing very well and you want to quit. let's help you there.

2. what is your genre?

what are you? vlogger? gamer? makeup? commentator? sketch comedy? political? debunker? think about what genre would you place yourself in then think about who is your favorite youtuber in that genre. when i first started mine were YMS and JonTron. they were great commentators. their humor was already very similar to mine but i adopted their quick paced editing style. you can tell they were my early influences. later on my influences were Armoured Skeptic and Sargon. it's good to have people who influence you. but now you have to make yourself unique.

3. what do you bring to the table?

what makes you stand out from others in said genre? you can take inspiration from your favorite youtuber's style. do it. no shame. i know youtubers who copy my style and it's great. (just don't literally copy them word for word, ever. because i know someone who did that to me. and i'm still butthurt about it) but now think of something different you can do.

4. what is your A E S T H E T I C 

so we discussed content but let's discuss the more shallow aspect- looks.

rule number 1 on youtube is have good thumbnails. take time to make your thumbnails. put nice borders around them or something. have short titles. have a "theme" (i use the same font for example) make it eye catching and make the title interesting (and short if you can) but don't go full clickbait. wait. first let's talk about WHAT clickbait is.
clickbait is titles or thumbnails that have nothing to do with the video topic.

that's it.

flashy thumbnails. colors. crazy titles. all of that is fine and not clickbait. as long as those things are relevant to the topic you are discussing in your video. remember that. the worst clickbait is the kind that doesn't even have anything about the topic in the title. please for the love of god do not use vague titles like "OMG YOU WON'T BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED HERE!!!" or "WOW I CAN'T BELIEVE HE DID THIS". it's so cheap.
i dabble in the art of "not-clickbait" by titling my videos things i argue against in said video. examples include: my "women aren't funny" or "men are wimps" videos. people will see those titles and be like "THE FUCK??" then breathe a sigh of relief when i agree with them. not clickbait-but makes people interested. making your title a question is also a good way to go. for example: "how many genders?" (my now deleted video) or "who stole feminism"? if you're making a video let's say about net neutrality and arguing for the pro-side of it. title it "is net neutrality bad?" or something like that. and have your dumbass doing a confused face for the thumbnail.

so we got your thumbnail down. now let's think about what physically separates the meat of your content from the thousands of other people sitting in their bedroom talking about current events or the dozens of other animal avatar/suit avatar anti-sjw channels?
my potato cam and 2008 bedroom vlog vibe are mine. have cool music in the background. have an interesting backdrop. have all your videos be in black and white. maybe have your entire wall covered in pictures of nicholas cage and never mention it. that would be hilarious.

5. if you weren't you would you watch your videos?
this one is so fucking important and it was a major motivation for my channel. as much as i hate myself i would probably watch my videos. i love comedic commentary. chris ray gun is currently my favorite "anti-feminist" channel and people always say we are the gender swapped versions of each other. and i learned pretty recently that his influence was also old JonTron videos. so there you go. are you doing something YOU would find entertaining or interesting? if not you need to re-evaluate. if so- let's move on to the next step.


so you think you have what makes you unique down. good. now is the hard part. getting people to watch your shit. i was lucky. but others might not be as lucky. this is what you do. SEND OTHER YOUTUBERS YOUR VIDEOS. i'm not fucking joking. you might feel annoying but if it's good content 80% of the time they will share it. this advice comes from me because i am that youtuber who shares it and i've seen people blow the fuck up overnight because of it. this works ESPECIALLY well if said youtuber is in your genre. it also helps if it is a subject or current event said youtuber is interested in. but do not spam it to them. once is enough. tweet it to them. "hey check out this video i made about ____". 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

establishing a fanbase

okay so you mentally figured out who you are and what to do. you made your thumbnails. you got the exposure.

now what?

like i said, a gurl talking about feminism was a unique thing on it's own especially when i started. but there are hundreds of anti-feminist channels and hundreds of anti feminist women on youtube now. i got lucky with the exposure but what about now? what makes these people stay? why are my numbers always good? why did i get 700,000 views on a video i made 4 days ago where i react to what i thought was overplayed shit from 2015?


you don't have to-but i chose treating my channel like a character. the things said are still my real opinions, but my personality in real life is NOT that boisterous and loud. i'm in fact pretty timid and laid back. but shoe0nhead is a giant idiot. she's ON all the time. EXTREMELY ONLINE. and people love it. there are things associated with my channel. like ollie. the patriarchy monster. the don't flag. the wage gap button. nihilism. the bad camera. the dr. dre and gorillaz music. it really helps to have at least one "thing". think of yourself as an action figure or a barbie. what accessories would you come with? chrisraygun would come with bleach and paul. armoured skeptic would come with his minions and... me. it's cool to have a "thing". you don't have to, but it's cool to. fans like "things". although it's cheesy and only works if you're a goofy entertainer, you could also have a name for your fanbase. mine is friendos. :D

pay attention to your viewers

youtube is all about entertaining your audience. they are who is important here. always keep them in mind. respond to comments. "heart" comments. pin comments. make a twitter account. make your channel a fun environment where people will always enjoy coming back. when you are big enough make merch. encourage fans to send you pictures of them wearing the merch then make a montage of all your awesome fans rocking your shirts. make them feel important, because they are. they are not numbers or dollar signs, they are real people who enjoy what you do and they need to come first.

closing notes. 

-make sure you always love what you are doing. if you ever feel stuck or feel like your content is stale mix it up or take a break. breaks are good. like my "quitting" break.

-listen to criticism. sometimes you will get harsh criticism and it might hurt your feelings. but it's important to listen to it and consider what they are saying. if it's just dumb hate like "fuck you fagboi" ignore it. if you get enough cringe worthy insults make a video reading hate comments. people love that shit.

i cannot help you 'become a popular youtuber'. some people get lucky when it comes to exposure but even the lucky ones work hard after the initial exposure. if you can do it it's a lot of fun. it's a dream job doing what you love for a living. 

good luck, frens <3

Wednesday, October 25, 2017

'social autopsy': doxxing website

ohh honey i forgot i had a blog. this is for topics i dont care enough about or are too personal to make videos on.

so you've probably seen me tweeting at and about this woman called RedPillBlack. Here's why:


i barely knew who this person was. but thanks to TreeOfLogic's video.. it's been consuming a lot of my day exploring how funny this is.

redpillblack is a conservative youtuber who has been on infowars and a bunch of other large conservative channels. her videos are normal conservative/anti-sjw content as far as i've seen. people are saying it's sketchy that she has so many subs with so like 15 videos but my channel was the same way. she sounds intelligent, speaks softly, is beautiful and she has a unique POV, black conservative female, it's natural for people to be interested. so that's not the weird part.

social autopsy

this is the same woman who founded "social autopsy" a website literally dedicated to doxxing people who have said mean things online. (which we all know is subjective.) also dedicated to helping children dealing with online bullying by doxxing other children. yeah.
you can make a profile for somebody with a bunch of 'receipts' of their "bad behavior" and attach their full name, city, SCHOOL and fucking PLACE OF WORK. it's literally south park irl. chris ray gun made a video about this website in 2016. i never saw it but watched it today. in the video you can see her 1984 as fuck promo videos for the site. check it out.

liberal to conservative 'overnight'

a year later she resurfaced as "red pilled black". not that weird. many people are starting to realize how awful SJW's are and many are getting fed up with the left. but she's a full conservative "overnight" because, according to her on the Rubin Report, Zoe Quinn's white knights started harassing her anonymously over her website. and this made her change all her political positions. that's legit the origin story for her awakening.
also what i find interesting is she has no proof it was "sjws" that were trolling her. she guessed since it was the same week Zoe called her (rightfully) telling her the site was awful and she shouldn't go through with it. yeah SJW's are vile but around the same time chrisraygun, mundane matt, infowars and many others were reporting on her doxxing site. according to several comments/tweets i've seen 4chan was also talking about it a lot. so it could have been .... anyone and everyone. it's more believable that 4chan did a raid tbh. but from the assumption that it was SJWs- she magically turned conservative. i've been getting shit from SJW's and shitting on SJW's since 2013 and i still hold liberal political beliefs. finding SJW behavior abhorrent has fuck all to do with political beliefs. it's not like you get cyberbullied by some idiot liberals and, for example, suddenly you're anti-abortion and pro-small government. so that part is sketchy on it's own. the reason she gives is just nonsensical. to me. take laci green's "red pilling" for a more natural example. she still holds many of her beliefs but simply became more open minded about people against feminism because of all the shit she has seen from feminists. she didn't turn anti-feminist or conservative. i do find people who jump from one end to the other quickly sus as hell but just like laci, i dont think RPB is faking. but let's dive deeper into this-

the issue

when this was written the site was not down. the funding stopped only 9 months ago. the FAQ was erased last summer but the 'submit a person' page remained. yes. you can still submit people's personal information. the fuck. she did not given any reason why the site was still up or why that page remained. if she's able to delete the FAQ why can't she delete the submit page? bizarre.

why this site is scary

imagine being a teenaged edgelord, growing up, changing, regretting your past behavior but having that edgelordness attached to your name forever. future employers can look you up and see you said "suck my shitting dick nipples" 4 years ago. 

imagine being an outspoken right winger or left winger who engages in heated debates online. now all your shit is exposed to antifa members and other extremists who can hunt you down.

imagine someone who engages in heated debates online with neo-nazis or even people who just have personal vendettas against you. now they know where you live.

all you need is a full name and city. which is the information provided on the site.
people who hate you can swat you, they can hurt you. this takes online bullying to real life bullying. the site even fucking knows that. in their terms of service they claim they are not responsible for anything that may happen to the people doxxed. the FUCK.

the website has gathered over 20,000 people's information. in her own words:

check out suityourself's video and andy warski's video where they show just how disturbing this shit is.


turn back now if you have low tolerance for cringe

to make things worse on twitter she says she will 'not apologize' for social autopsy because at the time her 'heart was in the right place'. i get standing your ground and refusing to apologize when under pressure to do so. that's fine. honestly. people may have a problem with her not saying sorry but if we should not force people to apologize when they don't even mean it. 

one of her excuses for not deleting the website (or ability to enter people's dox) was, and i quote, she "wanted it to be a reminder of her past". because clearly her own personal shit is more important than people's information?

but even WORSE she's also saying this is a

wait for it

"funded misinformation campaign"



this is where shit gets fucking RETARDED.

"everyone who is criticizing me is a paid soros shill" attitude does not help her AT ALL. people have been talking about social autopsy's fuckery since 2016- which by the way- if you didn't know- was 4 years ago. at least according to Paul Joseph Watson with his god awful white knighting attempt for her. ignoring the fact that he himself wrote about her doxxing site last year. people were responding to her tweet saying things like "fuck those libs" "ignore those liberals they just wanna take you down" "liberals hate you because you're a black conservative". it makes me fucking cringe. hard. since when is 'anti-doxxing' a political thing?

bizarre 'fake conservative' narrative

after she removed the page after being pressured to- RPB went on twitter rants about how the people that were criticizing her about this are "fake conservatives" and how they are "acting like liberals" again, cringe. this whole "LIBRULS" thing when it comes to this topic is fucking retarded. there were hundreds if not thousands of her own fans, conservatives and anti-sjw's in general, giving a shit about this. anyone who believes in liberty and the right to anonymity was mad. if anything this proves that their beliefs are consistent (anti-doxxing) and they don't engage in tribalism. just because RPB is "one of them" should not exclude her from criticism. i don't know why she's pulling the "im one of you" guilt trip. i would never want someone to hold back criticism of me just because they agree with some of my political beliefs. that's the stupidest shit. especially when the topic at hand has NOTHING TO DO WITH POLITICS. although RPD dropped the SJW thing, she's still holding on real tight to the tribalistic mentality SJW types are notorious for having. 

is she going to switch sides because of *this* now? lol

again, what does thinking your doxing site is creepy as shit have to do with politics?

pulling the identity politics card

because people giving you shit about your public doxxing site had everything to do with the color of your skin. good lord. this keeps getting more pathetic. the more she digs herself this hole the more interesting this becomes. i wanted to stop but i can't look away. 

she keeps guilt tripping her conservative audience. praising those who blindly kiss her ass (Rubin, PJW, Joy Villa) saying "this is why THEY'RE leaders" and calling everyone who dare criticize her "liberals in disguise", "fake conservative" implying if you dare question this woman you are not a REAAAALLL conservative. how could you question her ethics?? she's one of youuuu

"it takes a lot to go against pack mentality btw everyone who questions me is a fake conservative stay in the pack."

"maybe if i just say MAGA MAGA MAGA all of this will go away"

The worst white knighting I have ever seen in my fucking life:

The "you're just jealous" knights:

There's also the "maybe she doesn't know how to take down the site" knights. The "Stop being a bully to my waifu but it's ok when you mock a feminist" knights. The "pls no infighting disregarding the fact that you are not a conservative yourself and have only just discovered this person a few days ago" knights. And my personal favorite- the "MAGA MAGA i have no idea what's going on i am out of the loop but i support her stop questioning my waifu MAGA MAGA" knights. 

i'd get the hilarious screencaps but she fucking blocked me (and hundreds of other people)

top lel

anyway it's over.
hope you enjoyed this ride.

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

feminism. humblebrag: the movement

OOP. i forgot i had a blog. i figured this will come in handy for those topics that just aren't good enough or "too personal" for a shoe0ffhead/shoe0nhead video. besides, i fucken love writing. i forget how much i love writing until i start writing again.

and yes before you buttcry, i'm using my all lowercase schtick. i've been doing this since the AOL days. i like it. i turn off the auto-caps on my phone. too edgy for this world.

before you read on this is a quick disclaimer: the begining of this is more personal than things you would see on my channel. this isn't seeking sympathy or anything like that, everyone has problems, it's just some history and insight as to why this particular article and attitude pisses me the fuck off so much.

humblebrag: the movement

trichotillomania is a pretty rare disorder. it's an obsessive compulsive habit to pull hair out of your head (or body) from the root. it's a bit like a stronger nail biting habit put there by our ancestors need to groom themselves (pretty interesting).
it's been known to affect mostly women and starts at the ages 9-13 (puberty) and is triggered by intense depression or stress.
i've had trich since i was 12 years old. i didn't tell my parents i was the one who was making my hair "fall out"and causing all those bald spots, i was too embarrassed to say it was myself doing it. because what the fuck? what a crazy and random thing to do to yourself. i was embarrassed and confused. i was sent to all different doctors and even had a biopsy done on my head (why the fuck wouldn't i just tell them it's me? i want to strangle 12 year old june). eventually my parents caught on when my mom caught me pulling out strands of my hair and they learned what trich was.

by golly was that the cherry on top of being already bullied relentlessly in school. for the next 3 years i wore bandanas and headbands to my classes, would have them yanked off of me, had people start rumors i had lice that ate my hair and i had cancer (WHY THE FUCK ARE KIDS SO EVIL WHO THE FUCK WOULD  MAKE FUN OF SOMEONE WITH CANCER THIS MAKES ME LAUGH SO HARD NOW FUCK)
i was incredibly envious of girls who had hair. who could style it. curl it. color it. i wanted bright purple hair so fucking badly. i wanted to streak it and wear it in braids. i wanted to look awesome and have fun and feel like a girl but i couldn't because my stupid idiot self had a weirdass disorder. some days were worse than others, i'd lock myself in the school bathroom and just rip chunks of hair out refusing to go to class. it was a shitty cycle. the more depressed and stressed i got the more hair i pulled out. the more hair i pulled out the more depressed and stressed i got. (i'm going to save my full school experience story for another time because it's long and also quite interesting and i feel lots of people can sort of relate)
this followed me all through my life and fucked up lots of things. it morphed me into a complete hermit shut in which led me to having no friends, which led me to me to taking solace in the internet, which led me to right now typing at my computer next to my hot boyfriend who is playing doom and being hot and angry. "come get some bitch"

i'm sitting on a towel.

years ago i would have never ever fucking told anybody about my trich. if they asked what was wrong with my hair i would say i burned some off by accident. if they asked if i was wearing a wig i'd absolutely deny it. today i just flat out tell them i wear wigs and i have a disorder. people always think it's cool and go "wow that must be nice to just change your style every day!", and it's true it is, (fucking expensive as fuck like $700-$20000 a wig expensive but whatever i guess it's better than being bored with one style?) people are sweet. i've grown to not care and embrace it. i feel comfortable telling the internet this now. years ago i couldn't fucking imagine telling thousands of strangers something like this but it feels good. Dr. Feels Goodman.

women and men are constantly complimenting my hair and telling me how beautiful and perfect it is. girls always ask where i get it cut or what products i use. it's not awkward to tell them i wear a wig but they're always disappointed. the compliments are so sweet. yeah it's not my real hair, but after years of feeling like fucking golem it makes me want to cry every time.

which leads me to the meat of this rant.

this. fucking. article.

(can we just take a moment to appreciate the ad underneath the title from my google search history.
how deliciously ironic and depressing)

feminism has literally become humblebrag: the movement.

for those of you who are unaware of what a humblebrag is. here are some examples.

"i don't know what to do with all these phone numbers these chicks gave to me it's annoying carrying them around in my pocket i need room for all my money :("

a humblebrag is obvious bragging but trying to come off as humble/pissed about the positive thing happening to you. another good example is all the 3/10's crying about catcalling and compliments. every fucking woman who isn't butt ugly gets hit on. fuck off it's not an epidemic it's called HUMANS ATTEMPTING TO MATE. p.s i'm not justifying actual catcalling that shit is cringe as fuck.

i rarely if ever leave my fucking house and 60% of the times i do i get a guy talking to me and i'm like a fucking 5 on a good day. some people are talkative and like to meet new people. fuck that noise. *shoves entire baybel cheese wheel into fat retarded mouth* tell them you have a boyfriend or aren't interested, don't be a dick. don't come running home to tumblr or youtube crying about how men hitting on you is rape culture.

yes this blog post became ranting about feminism. we went 0 to 100 real fast. emo to shitpost real fast.

lets get back to this diarrhea in text form here.

in this feminist shitfest some idiot humblebrags that she's tired of people complimenting her "amazing" hair.

this is the best picture of her on the internet

Yes, my hair is brilliant. It’s vibrant, it’s fun, it’s candy-colored deliciousness. To say I stand out in a crowd is an understatement.

yes my skin is perfect. it's soft. it's flawless. there's not a zit or ance scar to be found. it's been flawless my entire life. women need to stop complimenting my skin.

sorry. i wanted to jump in on the humble brag.

anyway GOOD4YOU. you're proud of your awesome hair. i think it's awesome too. i've always loved hair dyed crazy colors. i'm kind of pissed it's become a "social justice" stereotype when originally it was the punks and goths who rocked it.

Because my hair is so distinct, people comment on it almost every time I leave the house. Usually, the people stopping me to tell me that they like my hair are men, like you. And, truth be told, I just don’t give a fuck what you think of my hair.

OH JESUS CHRIST THATS TOO BAD. they're being nice KIND human beings. THEY LIKE YOUR HAIR. THEY LIKE THE COLOR. maybe they're so used to seeing basic bitches with blonde, brown, black hair you stand out and they like it. maybe they like punk chicks. maybe they appreciate the look you have created. for fuck's sake it's a compliment.


all these men hit on me every time i leave the house i hate it hurrdurr
welcome to having a vagina.
not to say chicks with dicks don't get hit on...
i mean
look at this.
it's like staring into the sun.


unsolicited comments about my appearance feel intrusive and threatening.

"unsolicited comments"
what the fuck is the opposite of that then?
>solicited comments

so when you're not outwardly fishing for them you don't accept compliments?


what the actual fuck am i reading right now this is glorious.

I know that my hair is really bright and noticeable, but I really wish you would stop using it as an opening to try to get my attention. And honestly, you’re not the first guy to try that line on me today. It’s tired, bro, and I’m exhausted. I mean, CAN I LIVE?

1. people like to have a topic to talk about if they want to get to know somebody. either that or they're going to use a shitty pick-up line. choose your "poison". i started initial conversation with my boyfriend when i bought his fucking merch shirt. i guarantee that's more retarded than some dude telling you your hair is neat.

2. you're not that fucking hot calm yourself.

guys, i don't think i can handle this cringe. do you think this should be a video? i thought the hair part was too personal but shit this might actually be a good video. you know me, i love to share lolcows with the world. and this is like a lolherd. tell me if i should. i'm not sure.

When I’m not emphatically grateful that you complimented my hair when I never asked you to, it doesn’t mean I’m a bitch. It just means that I don’t appreciate comments from dudes about what I look like. Especially random dudes on the street that I don’t know. Please consider what it feels like for me. I’m just trying to go about my day, and men that I don’t know keep interrupting me to tell me that I’m pretty or my hair is awesome. 

>when i never asked you to

>it doesn't mean i'm a bitch
no it doesn't but you're pretty socially fucking retarded. and that's coming from a socially fucking retarded retard herself.

 >i don't appreciate comments from dudes
ya keep emphasizing "dudes" and "men" so im guessing if it was a woman it's okay? you're just scared of the peen?

>please consider what it feels like for me

>men i don't know keep interuptting me to tell me my hair is awesome
what the fuck is this i'm screaming.

 I’m immediately on guard, because I’m not sure what response you’re going to be looking for, and if I give the wrong one, sometimes you get angry, and then I feel frightened. Therefore, I dread any interactions with men on the street because I don’t know how they’re going to end.
sounds like paranoia, fam. this is actually getting kind of sad.
yeah some people are assholes, i've dealt with those. one time a guy refused to leave unless i gave him a kiss, i gave him a hug so he'd fuck off. one told me to spin around so he could see my whole body. i told one i had a boyfriend like i always do but his answer was "he's not here :^)".

people can be really creepy and retarded when it comes to personal boundaries. but this is not the majority. so don't pretend it is.

And I know it might seem odd, but I actually don’t dye my hair because I “want attention” or because I care what anyone thinks about it. This may be hard to believe, but I actually dye my hair these bright colors for myself. 
yeah i agree. colored hair is awesome. i love my eyeliner style. i've been doing it since i was 14. it gets lots of compliments online and offline by women and men alike. i dont put it on because of that- i put it on because it exaggerates my big almond eyes and makes me feel cute. (also because i'm so fucking used to it) i get you there.

Not all women’s behaviors are done with the end goal of appealing to men (SHOCKING, I KNOW).
tell that to the fucking hundreds of feminists who say anti-feminist women just have different opinions for male attention

 i agree though.

You assume that I’m single, despite the ring on my finger that indicates that I’m not.

so just tell them you're fucking not. it takes two seconds. people are not mind readers. they're not looking at your fingers, retard. they're looking at that SWEET ASS HAIR OF YOURS AYYY GURL SHAKE THAT HAIR MMFF

You also assume that I’m straight, and interested in being hit on by a dude. 

that's because a very large portion of people are straight and there's a huge chance you are straight. is.. is this article for real.

And, of course, you assume that you’re entitled to my attention or conversation or gratitude.


"you think you're entitled to my conversation or respect? PSSSSH"

like who the fuck even are you hahaha who do you think you are ahahaha the queen of england hahahaha log off

And I hate to be the one to burst the bubble of male entitlement you’ve been blissfully shrouded in, but men are not entitled to anything from me.

since we're both bitches here, i highly doubt most men want anything to do with you and this is a giant humblebrag pretending you're some high class piece of ass.

"can i speak to a manager"

honey, no. sit down.
you look like a trashy "COOL MOM".
without your neon pink hair you would blend in with the walls at any Sears.

Men, please do me a favor. The next time you want to tell me, or some other girl, how much you like our hair, please don’t.  This also applies to telling us that you like our dress, our tattoos, our necklace, or any other thing on or about our body.

HAHAHAH WHO IS THIS "OUR", "US" "WE". i went half of my life, a very important half of my life, with no fucking hair ugly as fuck buck toothed faggot. back then i would KILL for somebody to say something nice to me like that. and your'e going to sit here and beg people not to give you kind passing compliments? dude.

but let's get to your real message here, the real reason you are writing this.
"men, don't compliment us women"
you want men to stop complimenting other women.
your goal is so transparent here.
why the fuck do you want men to stop complimenting other women? because you rarely get compliments yourself? is that why you blew up mundane shit that happens to every woman ever into some absolute shitfest? "IM SO SICK OF PEOPLE SAYING NICE THINGS ABOUT ME ALLLLL THE TIME~*~*~* DON'T YOU AGREE FELLOW WOMEN. MEN SHOULD STOP COMPLIMENTING WOMEN."

i don't know if this is a classic case of ((never reproduce)) or basic jealous hag that wants to sway the world to stop reminding her she's walmart tier.

"it sounds like she just doesnt want to hear her friends get complimented around her anymore. i bet you she's the ugliest fucking one in her social group."
-armouredskeptic, 2016

so here's my message:
people, don't stop complimenting people. compliments brighten people's days, even LIVES. who knows how shit that persons day or life is. who knows if they're going to go home and put a gun in their mouth that night. jesus christ. DO NOT STOP BEING NICE. say something nice to someone. see how they smile. it feels good to make others feel good.

and to you, miss pink hair blogger, you may be a liar, narcissist, walmart mom.. but guess what?

your hair is neat
be happy you have it

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

middle aged moms white washing the internet

hallo there. 
this is a long scatter minded blog post written in my natural, unedited, unprofessional writing style. i am typing this at 4 in the morning because i was influenced by my friend's post, i got sick of condensing my thoughts into 140 characters, also i just love writing in general. i do "suffer" from a terrible attention span. so if i go off topic, be sure to inform me.

this is a blog post about gamergate and also 'social justice'.
if you do not know what gamergate is, please watch
this video to get caught up in only a few seconds.

i played video games almost every day as a child. i have every console up to the original xbox (minus dreamcast) but i can't say i am too interested in games today. unless you count the sims. i like watching people play them more than i like playing them now. around 2008 in my 10th grade debate class, i remember going on stage in front of around 50 people and debating about how video games do not cause violence- how violent people cause violence.
today in 2015, for, 6 months straight, i have been debating non-stop about how people who play video games are not sexists- sexists are sexists.
for 6 months i have been actively defending my friends, who are only defending their hobby against cruel, ridiculous accusations and smear tactics thrown at them by various media outlets who constantly label them as misogynist terrorists for not wanting to see their favorite hobby go down in flames by people who couldn't care less about it.

you tap me on the shoulder and ask
"june, why are you so involved with gamergate if you don't play video games? isn't this movement all about ethics in journalism?"

sit down peasant.

when i first found out about gamergate it was in the heat of my return to youtube. i had just made a (awful) video about third wave feminism and how it's retarded and unnecessary as shit, about how feminism in america has become a celebrity trend and a sassy tumblr fashion statement.

i'm a feminist like queen beyonce tbh feminism is cool
at first i thought the story of gamergate was hilarious. how game devs frantically trying to cover up corruption started to pretend their sites were hacked. how everyone was sleeping with each other for better reviews of their shitty boring games. as predicted the game dev in question pulled the "IM A WOMAN" card. the most classic get out of jail, get out of responsibility card there is. this is what initially sparked my interest in this. 
using "woman" as a shield has become so popular for these types of humans. you can say and do the most fucked up shit and if someone dares call you out on it or criticize you? simply shout the fact that you indeed have a vagina at the top of your lungs, and you can guarantee you will have 400 white knights sucking your infected facial piercings.
using "woman" as a buzzword for victim points is used far too often by feminists and it's both equal parts embarrassing as it is patronizing. it implies women are to be handled like drooling half retarded babies- never to receive criticism or be questioned. delicate little angels who can do no wrong and can't protect themselves. they cannot comprehend that idiots get called out for being idiots, regardless of gender.

>tfw you hate your vagina so much you think it's the reason everyone hates you

disregarding the fact that the internet mocks many idiotic men just as much, if not more, than the women involved in these scandals, female game devs and irrelevant conartists continued to feed their hipster welfare accounts with the money of neutered manchildren. several were climbing over each other for death threats and harassment for the title of 'most hated feminist in the video game industry'. women tossing themselves into the beehive waiting to be stung by any twitter egg account that was made that day so they can screencap it and profit off of it.

behold, the face of harassment.

the media and these idiots twisted everything. instead of gamergate being about corruption in the journalism industry- gamergate was painted as a misogynist hate movement run by online terrorists who want women out of their hobby.
and that could not possibly be any more false.

"it's not about corruption in the media!" 
-the media

first of all video games are not only a boys club. and for fug's sake why do you think the trend 'gamurgirl' is a thing? why do you think people pretend to be women in games like WoW? girls are not just accepted, they often get special treatment and are praised. my minecraft account was used by an old friend of mine for years where he flirted with people to get free shit. ask anyone who plays games as a hobby what their ideal partner would be and 90% of the time it's "likes video games too".

gamergate much like video games, is also not a boys club.
in fact, i have met more women, gays and trans people through gamergate than i have in my many years on the internet (and in real life) and i now have more close online female friends than i ever did.
all of these months involved i have seen nothing but support from the cause towards me and other women involved.
look at all these FUCKING MEN
oh btw ladies can you try and be less attractive? it really triggers us.

#notyourshield is a hashtag started by Ninou as a rebuttal against the ridiculous accusations and claims that 10,000+ people in the gamergate hashtag are all white straight men that hate women. as retarded and bizarre as this sounds, every single day another white hipster accuses a minority of being a white male using a fake account (aka sock puppet) or even, get this, A STOCK PHOTO. yes my friends, they have accused people of being stock photos

notice how they are all sick of this shit.

these gamers are replied to with silence, being blocked or the idiot deleting their entire twitter account in shame.

anti-gamergate/ghazi/middle aged moms/pissants/SJW's whatever you prefer to call them, are so deep in the kool aid they cannot comprehend anybody falling outside of their ideology. we see this with feminism too. the daily claims of "internalized racism" and "internalized misogyny"  because god forbid a woman or black person calls them out on their self righteousness or immense PATRONIZING it can't possibly be that they are able to think outside of the herd, no, it's because they are simply brainwashed and too stupid to know whats good for them! we all need brave (white, straight) men and women telling us how all how to think and how to woman/minority/gay correctly.

"so why do they want so badly to whitewash gamergate?" 
you ask, your eyes full of curiosity and wonder.

well my babies, get cozy, because uncle june is about to tell you.

now just a quick reminder before we dive head first into this shallow pool of stupid, we are talking about a certain brand of social justice. on paper, much like feminism, social justice is a good thing. everybody should be equal and treated fairly. we're talking about the insecure grownass adults who want so badly for gays and black people to like them that they go and shit on their own race, thinking it will please them. we are talking about grownass adults who believe racism against people with white skin does not exist and think eating chinese food is cultural appropriation.

you see, the goal of the middle aged mom is simple; look as progressive as possible, as "morally superior" as possible and collect as many internet brownie points as possible from all of their other middle aged mom friends. internet social justice was made by straight white people- for straight white people. 

pls respond

congratulations on doing the bare minimum of what is expected of human beings.

so what makes somebody this way? three things;

  • guilt
  • projection
  • over-compensation.

hey ladies, i'm not like those other men, i WONT hit you. ehehe


much like when a loud anti-gay rights governor is caught at a gay bar.
or when the leader of the klan is caught getting a blowjob from a black girl.

projection is a funny thing.

(in fact sometimes i think my dislike for these hyper sensitive cry babies stems from myself being an extremely hyper sensitive cry baby.)

for the sake of this rant lets pretend that these people in fact do not have NPD or HPD. (psst they do)
but most of it is simply ego stroking.
do you remebember kony 2012
internet social justice is exactly that only dragged on 5 years too long.

basically the name of the game is to be as progressive and as self righteous as you can possibly be so no one
suspects you're in fact actually a huge asshole who would buttfuck their own clone if given the chance.

but i digress.

"WHY do the SJW's want so desperately to whitewash gamergate???" you scream towards the sky, hands bloody, those eyes now filled with tears.

calm down, baby, i'm gettin to that.

the middle aged mom brigade has never once approached me.
not once, not neva.
before the creation of the Super Mega Hugbox 2000
i would confront those who claimed GG was against women.
and i would be met with...


i shit you not.
never once have one of these reeree's responded to me AFTER finding out i was a woman. but when they think i'm one of their precious white men, the story is a little different.

i have been accused of being a sock puppet around seven times since august. the most famous (and most hilarious) time being by Graham Linehan
"Glinner" is nobody of importance the writer of the comedy series  'the IT crowd".

this was the first time i had heard about this person when this specific tweet was retweeted onto my twitter feed. glinner is, for some reason, unable to comprehend that people like to use pictures of cartoon characters they like as their avatars. if glinner was of this generation and not a dried up dusty vagina, he would understand that nobody assumes people using female character avatars are trying to pretend TO BE those avatars (what even). it's widely known by the entire internet that you do not have to use a picture of yourself as your avatar and that cartoons, logos, drawings and "memes" (reaction images) are very popular choices for replacements. it's also common knowledge (but apparently not to adam baldwin) that you do not have to use your real full name on social media platforms. this logic is still beyond me and i think i'd have to age about 25 more years to finally understand it. 

that's where the term middle aged mom comes in.
think of it as if your mother were to find out what gamergate is.
they don't know anything about anything.

many of these people are what we on the DARKNET 1337 hax0rs anonymous leader of 4chan's /V/ like to call "normies", or "norps" (normal ordinary responsible person) the type that have their real life friends added on everything and still use AOL as their primary email. they do not know how to computer the internet.

now in reality, the chantards are the losers here. we surround ourselves with the gutter filth of the internet and we're friends with hundreds of people we have never met in person. our humor is unique, sometimes dark, ironic and more or less offensive depending on your own sense of humor. to normal people, this is bizarre, confusing and even disgusting.
but we've been numbed by the ridiculous things we have seen online that some of the most disturbing things now borderline blend in with the background of your monitor and skip right passed your eyes. to us "internet trolls" and generic harassment are no threat and we know they are just bored asssholes bothering people to get a reaction from them. but to people in their mid 30's who only share pictures of their dog and spinach quiche recipes on facebook, this is a huge problem. call the cops. call barrack obama.
this causes a lot of confusion between these two groups (anti-gg and gg). now, i have absolutely no idea why it is mostly split this way. but i can guess it has something to do with these people being middle aged mom types and "gators" being more shut-in and nerdy. therefor they would use the internet more, grow up with it and be familiar with "chan culture".
but anyway!
as i was saying..

i confronted glinner on his bullcrap. to which he responded-
oh wait he didn't. 

he instead posted my twitter avatar with the caption "look at this one. not misogyny! ethics!", implying i was a man hiding behind a woman's picture and calling that woman (myself) a slut. ???

the funniest thing about this though, or most embarrassing, was that Glinner is supposedly a comedic writer, somebody who should indeed understand what self depreciating humor is, but he didn't. he instead jumped to the completely bizarre conclusion that i was a man using a picture of a girl. because it's a fact girls can't be funny and gamergate is all fulla white penises. but what do you expect from a man whose show is about a woman too dumb to into computers so a bunch of men have to help her. (do i smell projection again?)
instead of apologizing for potentially sending 400k angry M.A.M's to harass me (plot twist, once again none of them confronted me) glinner instead blocks me out of shame and back peddles so hard i swear i felt the earth slightly tilt 3 inches from it's axis.

"you're harassing women."
"so what they're stupid they deserve it"

i guess all of those wife beaters were right all along. thanks glinner. very nice.

to this day glinner remains the butt of many of my jokes. he is a lolcow with endless milk and i pray to the gods every day for his glorious fuck up that made me laugh harder than the IT crowd ever did. it was the second hand embarrassment felt around the world.

"WHY DO SJWS WANT SO BADLY TO WHITE WASH GAMERGATE WHY DO THEY GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO BLOCK AND SILENCE MINORITIES AND WOMEN?? I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANYMORE. ANSWER THE FUCKING QUESTION!!!!!!!!" you are now screaming, veins protruding out of your skull, you claw at the ground in some kind of animalistic instinct to escape your pain and torture.

hush hush, my child, the time will come.

earlier i mentioned something about the blockbot, the hugbox machine 2000, or aka "mommy please hold my hand the internet is scary and people disagree with me"
it was created by a programmer named randi harper  who made the bot as a means to block all of the "harassers". the blockbot instead blocks literally everyone who has ever tweeted something (good) about gamergate, and even people who follow people who tweet about gamergate. it puts people into groups and ranks them on their potential threat to muh narrative DANGER level. 
(1 being the highest level of shitlord, 3 being slightly 'problematic', i guess)


among those harassers was KFC, yes the chicken place, and the president of IGDA puerto rico, who was not very happy about that.

with 10,000 people blocked, including hundreds of women and minorities, anti-gamergate successfully created the largest echo chamber known to man kind. here they can safely log out of their accounts, lurk ours and post screenshots of "problematic" things gamergate says so they can report back to the hugbox and jack each other off frantically to caps of a trans woman who jokes about trans women, generic regurgitated /pol/tard vomit and tweets taken out of context to make us look evil. because remember folks; all of the gamergate hashtag is one person and people are unable to think outside a hivemind!

"PLEASE. MAKE IT STOP. GET TO YOUR POINT ALREADY" you sob with a loaded gun against your temple. i watch as your salty tears fall from your rosy cheeks down to your chin. you look up at me with a glimmer of hope.

lol hold up lil nigga i'm almost finished.

of course when someone on the anti-gamergate side does something "problematic" such as 'accidentally' sharing childporn and saving pictures of naked children, fantasizing about dog dong and children butts, doxxing me and others,  the rules suddenly change and excuses like "OH. WELL… THATS NOT WHAT *I* THINK SO…" or the ever so popular "ANTI GAMERGATE IS NOT EVEN A THING!!" come out of the woodwork.

you put your finger on the trigger and close your eyes

okay. jesus christ.

it's simple.

anti-gamergate white washes gamergate because it fits their narrative.

that's it.

just like how anita cherry picks who her 'haters' are.

lmao nah

their narrative is that all of gamergate are angry white male nerds living in their parents basement. just like dick wolf said. if the world were to see how many different types of people disagreed with them, the narritave would be shattered and they would have no ammo.
this is why they label us as white, male, MRA, right wing, conservatives.
(despite GG being nearly ALL left wing)

they will make themselves believe everyone who disagrees with them is whoever their ideology deems is the enemy.
it's all about muh narrative, remember that.
even mark kern (game dev of world of warcraft) who still holds a neutral stance and only wishes peace to both sides.. was reduced to nothing but another "white cis dude", despite being an asian man.

get it, gurl.

using the block bot to silence the opposing voice is the smartest thing these cowards will ever do. now they can live in their white washed make believe world where their narrative will never, ever be questioned.
truly a hugbox of extraordinary proportions.

george orwell is spinning in his grave.

in fact, the hugbox machine 2000 specifically blocks minorities under the word "token". amazing.

and god forbid someone slips through the hugbox cracks and shows you hard evidence of anita being a con artist? 
pull a sassy "bored of u~*" cop-out and block them.

the fact remains.
anti-gg has nothing.
they have screencaps of generic twitter trolls spewing playground insults.
they 'listen and believe' over hard evidence and facts.
they get angry when more corruption in the industry is unveiled.
they have a dangerous 'with us or against us' mentality which has bought many neutrals to this side.
they whitewash and silence to fit their agenda.
they grasp at straws and cherry pick until their hands are bleeding.
but most important of all
they're losing
and they know it

okay it's 6:22 am.
thanks for reading. you can put down the gun now.